Polygamy and Polyamorous Relationships

Posted by Cicely On 4:54 PM

I gotta read this book...give me a minute to get back on it. This topic is hot on the boards--but based on the fact that many folks I know are having a problem with themselves to the point where they can't even have a decent one on one relationship! As the Buddhists have said, the sword in the hands of a coward is useless. I wonder do we really want what we say we want, do we really want to be able to control our destiny? Again, we can propagandize and develop all the media we want but if we don’t extend the battle to the food and water then our people will not be able to hear us…it’ll be more like trying to argue with a person who is inebriated…whose really behaving foolishly in that scenario? Our people cannot hear us! We have sounded the battle cry but their ears and eyes are blocked with thousands of media hits per day! Their thinking is distorted by 100 teaspoons of white sugar per day! They cannot hear us AND they cannot think for themselves!! In their right minds they wouldn’t need to hear anyone because they would be taking responsibility for themselves! Those of us who can hear beyond the hype need to put our heads and spirits to work and break the hold on ourselves and as many of our folks as possible. We need to be organizing ourselves and taking retreats to re-strengthen and keep ourselves built for this battle! We need to spend more time genuinely elevating ourselves and thereby increasing the frequency of all things around us! We can blame no one if we continue in the same vein! We know who is really doing it and really committed and really striving to elevate based on the FRUIT PRODUCED! We all have a lot more work to do! And those of us who think that we can skip to the so-called original family of polygamy, has got to be joking! First of all, most of the people doing the research and scholarship are males, coming to male conclusions! If I researched the history of family structures I guarantee you that I will find the original and best family structure was one where the woman’s vagina was not on lock with one man! But that she could share and give with the men that she needed to in order to reach enlightenment to benefit herself, family and the wider community! Men would be able to hold ejaculations and she would be able to build and generate sexual healing energy based on her spiritual, mental needs, characteristics etc. I guarantee you that I will find that there is no perfect manifestation of the perfect family structure! Family structures have always been a work in progress and based on the nature of man, they always will be. What we need to be more concerned with is healthy, and fruitful relationships that produce qualitatively better offspring and the use of sexual energy for what is was intended—regeneration, revitalization, and healing for ourselves, our community and the world! Make no mistake, there are women out here doing this vital work—I dare you to open yourselves up to more than just polygamy so you can see the woman for what she really is—the first and most profound teacher and leader of all of us—are you man enough to support her in this role? How you going to have more than one wife when you don’t even know how to control yourself—or your ejaculation? How are women going to function really in that scenario when most of us are not trained enough about the true nature of menstruation and don’t know how to control it? How can you even expect folks to be able to embrace the polyamorous lifestyle at this point when even one man and one woman generally cannot maintain fruitful and positive relations? Putting the cart before the horse makes me wonder if true intentions have been revealed and again, a sword in the hand of a coward is useless!

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